@ Nike

I am considering your opinion very seriously but it still does not rythm with the principle. I will definitely write about this ASAP!

Please, check it out!

Hi Dipo,
I'm sorry I was a little too forward there, what I'm trying to say is the men in Naija are nice, but here in the US it seems sistas have to guard their hearts a little more. I'm not saying your happiness depends on a man, I'm simply saying there are many players out there and it's important to make sure the object of your affection is actually a faithful man, and not a player.
I think a lot of good men look at it from their perspective and wonder why women say all men are bad, not all men are bad but it's important to guard your heart in every situation.
I'm not saying my or any other woman's happiness depends on the love a man showers, I'm just saying be sure his motives are right before you put your whole heart it. I'm not implying anything, all I'm saying is a broken heart may mend, but sometimes the scars remain.

Wow Nike,

Thank you very much for that insight!

You mean you have to wait for a man to love you before you love the man?

You mean your happiness depends on the love a man showers to you?

Your decision to love a man is based on the love he first showed you?

Are you implying that Man and woman is different in love issues but not different in right issues?

Some women claim rights to everything this days and fail to take responsibility for their happiness. Na waoooo. Come to think of it, I have not finished the story.

Let me just let you ponder on this scripture; God made man; male and female He made them.

I meant Yinka not Funmi, my bad...

Dipo,
You're a guy and I don't know why you're telling the girl to put her whole heart in, cearly Emeka is not fully into it either, as I always like to say, God so loved us «first» and gave his only begotten son for us, and so now we love Him. The man gives first, you don't put your whole heart in and give all of yourself to someone who doesn't appreciate you, that's simply a recipe for heartbreak.
She either loves him or she doesn't, she either trusts him or she doesn't, actually it sounds like she doesn't trust him but she likes him a lot. My personal opinion is that he sound's like a guy about town and she want's to settle down, «how can 2 walk together except they agree?» I ask you my brother? Funmi, like the book says «he's not that into you»!

LOVE WAN TITI
This story sounds really familiar and i was beginning to think you were actually talking about me. I look forward to the conclusion of this very article/story in order to contribute and learn from it.
You have acutally inspired me!