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@olajuwon,
the story is realler than my imagination can conjure. I have said it b4 on this blog, some guys are not looking out for virgins to marry and the above story goes to buttress that. Don't run maga o, sh*t happens, and there are plenty other stories that can make you just wanna pop a cap on someone's skull.
If na me....u suppose know now, we for no dey talk of surgery, evrybody for dey smile now, I go don help myself, help the girl and even help the husband gan papa. haba werin

@delagasky,am losing my mind..............i didnt see this post until now!!!is dis a real life story or a figment of your wonderful imaination.are u kiddin???dis happened to a gal in Nigeria??am in shock!!!
Yor friend's morals are soo soo high.if na u.....»u dint complete it now»LOL
i wasnt even aware the hymen could be removed surgically or however.God,dis is crazy.where are such gals?????

@olajuwon,
since you asked....i hope i can capture the important details in a short post sha. It is about friend of mine who lost a girl he really liked to her old flame (her family insisted she marries the other guy, why? its a really long story). Anyway, my guy accepted his fate but the lady wanted my friend to be the one to disvirgin her (compensation or what) and not her bethroted. Anyway my guy refused on moral grounds (ah!! if na me....). She got married a virgin and when the hubby discovered......he was surprised. He said he didn't want to go thru the 'stress' of de-flowering his wife and asked her to go to a clinic and have her hymen removed. The lady was so shocked that she called my friend and still wanted him to come and help her out. She got married august this year and begged my guy for like 2 months, all this time the hubby would not touch her. She finally went to a clinic, the hubby started to perform his duties and the rest........what do you guys think?

@delagasky,do u wanna share your story with us???

@funmilayo,
eh eh! Before marriage, we are not allowed to do sampling.....and then when we now marry, no galivanting still. AH! he go hard o.
Seriously now, the man(or woman) Bone said it all, but i think you need to revisit your previous article «fe-male virginity» again, i heard a story i find very disturbing and i am sure u would find it alarming as well.

My Thots;
That one should expect the unexpected,
That what we believe should be, may not be as the other man sees it,
That love(the human version of it) is just subject to emotional conditioning of that time,
Yes,both men and women cheat,the why is relative,not as stated above that the woman is not getting emotional fufillment,
That couples should not cheat on each other is wholly,morally,ethically and religeously proper.
Humans would always be humans, the flesh been a motivating factor of all evils.
Lastly,
Marital infidelity carries a grave curse people should not engage in it.