@ bridget...i'm follower of your blog.you have touched my life and blessed my soul with your words.though i never leave comments but the joy in my heart covers a thousand words.and now i appreciate myself more than i before and knowing that the man that I am now will be proud of the Father and Husband I shall become.I have become better as a result and my relationship is also better for it.Thank you.

@ Dipo.....hmm.deep one Dipo.Everyday i get dissatisfied with what i get and i keep probing myself and the answer i get is a question-what is your purpose?how the days went by,2009 is drawing to an end and i ask myself,what have you achieved if you were to die now?and the answer really is nothing..though i have discovered my purpose and its embedded in God and just as the obese woman needs to deal with a change of mindset so have I.And you have said it all-Knowing your purpose gives meaning to your life, simplifies your life, motivates you, focuses your life and prepares you for eternity..i have found the answers and its deep within,until I live my purpose satisfaction and fulfillment seems out of reach...Thank U Dipo.

Thanks for your timely post , My dear blogging mentor and Brother Dipo, I welcome you and your esteemed readers to this new month of December 2009, a month of divine recovery and fruitfulness. Indeed a purposeless life and a life without Christ is a life of crisis.The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren is a great way to understand our purpose in life, another book , i will recommend is The Assignment by Mike Murdock and of course the bible, which is God's manual for mankind, as we think of the next steps to take as regards our lives, may God direct us all aright and help us all in our final decisions, to have eternity in focus no matter where we end up..in paid employment or as enterpreneurs. God bless us all.

I quite agree with you;But many of us have fail to recognise our purpose in life and ones that happens,the concern individual has lay a foundation for failure.We all needs to re-define our purpose in life.Nice one Dipo.

Thanks for th push bro...Getting inspirations for 2010 already.

Right on target bro! This is quality advice for anyone seeking to do there own thing.